This is a brief history of how Bill and Emily met and became a family.
Bill was born William Edward O’Neal, on June 18, 1933 in
Allock, Perry County, Kentucky, to William Allen O’Neal and Ruth Amy Crauswell.
Allen, as he was known, was a coal miner who followed mining work from their
North Alabama home where he and Amy were married in 1920. They moved into the
Hazard, Kentucky area, some time prior to the birth of their first child, Dixie
Monroe O’Neal, who was born in 1926 in Bellcraft, Letcher County, KY. The birth
of their second child, Mary Jo, followed in December 1927, in Whitesburg, where
she died in April of 1930, and she is buried there.
Allen and Amy separated shortly after the birth of their
third child, Bill, in 1933 and she, with her two sons, returned to her home area
in North Alabama where her parents lived. Times were hard in the 30’s and 40’s
and Amy struggled to make a living for her and her two sons. Amy’s mother and
step-father, Virginia and Frank Williams, had left Cordova, AL around 1940 and
moved to Columbus, Georgia in hopes of getting a job at one of the many textile
mills located there.
Virginia soon convinced Amy to come to Columbus with her sons
since she had found a job for Amy working as a housekeeper in a boarding house
next door. The job paid little money but would include room and board for her
and the boys. In January 1941, Amy and her sons, Dixie and Bill, moved to
Columbus where she took the job at the boarding house. After a few months, she
was able to get a job at one of the local textile mills and she rented a house
into which she and her two sons moved.
The family lived in several rented houses until July 1946
when they were able to purchase a small 4 room home in the northern end of
Columbus in an area known as Beallwood. Dixie was drafted into the Army in 1942,
which left Amy and Bill on their own. Soon after moving to Beallwood, Bill
became acquainted with another youngster his own age, just down the street from
where they lived. His name was Douglas Whitley and they became best friends and
attended school together at Baker Village High School. Doug had a younger
sister named Emily, and that was how it all began.
Emily Barbara Whitley was born to Leonard Eugene Whitley and
Katie Mae Brown, on September 12, 1934, in Butler, Taylor County, Georgia. The
family moved from Butler to Columbus when Emily was 8. Her father worked at Fort
Benning for a short time, and eventually went to work for John A. Pope Motor
Company in Columbus as a mechanic. He was employed there until he had to retire
for health reasons about 1952. Emily had 5 siblings, Douglas and Scott who were
born in Butler, and Angela, Martha and Richard (Ricky), who were all born in
Columbus.
Bill and Emily became close friends, even at that young age,
and when they became old enough they started dating regularly, although both did
date others during those teenage years. Bill graduated from high school in 1950
and went to work at Radio Sales & Service Co. in Columbus. Emily went to work
for Columbus Office Supply while a senior in high school and continued for a
while following her graduation in June 1952. Bill had already asked Emily to
marry him before she finished school and a few days after her graduation, they
were married on June 20, 1952.
They were blessed with the birth of their first child, a son,
Michael David O’Neal, on July 17, 1953 in Columbus, GA. Bill had gone to work in
1956 with another electronics supply house in Opelika, AL and the family moved
there that year. Their second blessed event came on March 8, 1958 with the birth
of their second child, another son, Philip Gregory O’Neal, while they were
living in Opelika. Bill worked for this company for several years, including a
few years in their Atlanta area store, before returning to his former employer,
Radio Sales & Service Co. in Columbus in early 1961. Bill and Emily’s third
blessed event came on June 11, 1962 with the birth of a third child, another
son, William Christopher O’Neal, who was born in Columbus, GA.
In October 1963, Bill changed jobs and went to work for
Western Union in Columbus as a maintenance technician-trainee. The family lived
in several cities where Bill’s job took him during his first years with Western
Union, until he was awarded an apprentice position as Computer Center Technician
at the Albany, GA Autodin Center, a Western Union contract service with the U.S.
Department of Defense. He remained there for the next 22 years, retiring in
October 1988, with exactly 25 years of service. Emily had gone to work in 1973
as a Rural Mail Carrier with the U.S. Postal Service in Sylvester, GA, and she
retired in 1994 with 21 years of service. Upon her retirement, Bill and Emily
sold their property in Worth County and purchased property in the Rome, GA area,
where they remained until their death. They enjoyed retirement, pursuing their
hobbies and traveling. They had several grandchildren and several
great-grandchildren.